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Wendy C (Ayer) Crossley

July 26, 1943 ~ November 27, 2022 (age 79) 79 Years Old
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Wendy Crossley Obituary

Wendy C. (Ayer) Crossley
Beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister & friend.

Wendy C. (Ayer) Crossley, 79, of Pelham, New Hampshire, passed away peacefully on Sunday November 27, 2022 at Salem Haven in Salem, NH.

She was the beloved wife of the late Donald E. Crossley who died in 2009.

Born in Bangor, Maine, July 26, 1943, the daughter of the late William and the late Freda (Dudley) Ayer, she was a graduate of Andover High School.

Prior to her retirement, she was a cafeteria worker with the Pelham School Lunch program for many years.

Among her several interests, Wendy enjoyed cooking, crafts, gardening, travel, playing scrabble, shopping and spending time with her family & friends.

She is survived by a daughter Dawn M. Melanson of Spring Hill, FL; two sons Douglas M. Crossley and his wife Debra Ernst of Washington, ME and Jeffrey A. Crossley and his wife Beth of Pelham, NH; four grandchildren Christopher  Horak and his girlfriend Marti, Joshua Horak & his fiancé Jill, Shaunna Depietro & her husband T.J. and Jarek Coulombe and his fiancé Cheyenne plus several great grandchildren; siblings brother John Ayer & sister Roxanne Moore & her husband John.

At this time services will be private. A Celebration of Life will be held May 13th, 2023 at a place to be determined.  E-condolences at www.pelhamfuneralhome.com. Those wishing may make contributions in her memory please make to Pelham School Lunch Program to assist children in need. Arrangements by the PELHAM FUNERAL HOME – PELHAM – NH – (603) 635-3333.

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